Karyna had just stepped inside to check on her 12-year-old son in the kitchen when Russian rockets exploded into her garden, leaving craters where her blossoming apple trees had stood.
When she regained consciousness after being thrown down her hallway by the impact of the S-300 missiles, she called out her son’s name through the dirt blown into her mouth by the explosions.
“I couldn’t hear his voice. I called out for him, but he didn’t answer,” the 41-year-old, who only gave her first name, told reporters two days later, amid the debris of her home.
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“I felt that if my son was gone, I would just kill myself,” she said. “Those were my first thoughts: ‘How am I going to live without my son?’”
Karyna’s family survived that close call last month, although it destroyed their home.
Still, she said she is not ready to leave her hometown of Kostyantynivka in the battle-scarred Donetsk region of eastern Ukraine.
That decision — to stay or go — has been foisted on many families with young children living near the front line in Ukraine since Russia launched its full-fledged invasion in February last year.
The unpredictability of the war can make the call more difficult. Karyna’s son survived the bombardment, but children have been killed recently in long-range strikes hundreds of kilometers from the fighting.
The stakes of the decision could not be higher. Ukrainian prosecutors say that 480 children have been killed since the war started and more than 1,400 wounded.
In July, Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskiy urged all residents of the Donetsk region to leave and local authorities have since ordered children to be pulled out of a series of frontline settlements.
Some families are holding out, citing poor finances or attachment to their homes. Others are refusing mandatory evacuation orders.
Authorities have said that one remaining child is being hidden from law enforcement officers by parents in the embattled Donetsk region town of Avdiivka, where nearly every residential building has been damaged by Russian shelling.
By contrast, Veronika Sorokina, 23, left with her two-year-old son the moment she sensed he was in danger — when Russian forces entered their village in the eastern Lugansk region in March.
Her husband, Vitaly Sorokina, 48, plotted a 60km trek through the countryside to Ukrainian positions, tracing a route he knew the Russians would not discover.
“It wasn’t a difficult decision. In three minutes, three minutes, we left. We were just afraid for our son,” Veronika Sorokina said, recalling how they took documents and her wedding dress.
“When we left the village, we covered the little one’s mouth so he wouldn’t scream,” she said, crying as she described their flight.
In Bakhmut, which has been the epicenter of fighting for months, 21-year-old Natalya Maksymenko wanted to wait a little longer before being forced to leave in September last year.
The day before she fled with her 19-year-old husband and six-month-old baby, the building across the street was shelled.
“I thought about what was really going on here. We have a baby and don’t know what could happen. If she dies, I’ll go crazy. And then I finally decided to leave,” she said.
A day after they fled their two-room apartment, with documents and their cat, their own building was struck by artillery.
They now all live together in a single room in the capital, Kyiv, and share kitchen and bathroom facilities with neighbors.
For Aryna Satovska, who runs a center in Kyiv that accommodates families with young children, the decision to exit is sometimes complicated because the routes out are themselves more dangerous than the urban hubs being attacked.
“Sometimes they were choosing between, well, relative safety and the danger of getting out. One of the stories we heard was that, out of 10 families that tried to evacuate, only five made it,” she said.
And sometimes escaping is only the first step in overcoming the trauma of war.
“We had children who, for two weeks, could not go outside to play at the playground because they remembered all the air alerts, and shellings and bombings,” Satovska said.
Karyna, standing by the debris of her home outside Kostyantynivka, said that even though she was not ready to flee, she would advise a friend in her place to do so.
“I would, but I wouldn’t tell her what to do. It’s her business, but I would advise her to do it. And if she needed help, I would help,” she said.
“But to live in an unfamiliar place — I can’t,” Karyna said, the contents of what used to be her kitchen spilling over into a missile crater.
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